Today marks an important day in my family, as we hold an estate sale for my parents. My mother has been gone since 2007, but my father is still alive, though he lives out of the area now. At age 95, he needs a lot of assistance, can’t hear very well, and does a lot of sleeping. For the past several months, we’ve been making arrangements for the sale, and it just hit me this morning that everything in the house that we normally see… and have seen daily for years… will be disappearing one-by-one. That’s a strange feeling. There are some things yet in the house that Dad has asked that we ship to him, and what he wants are strange items. I’m wondering what he will do after the sale when he remembers something else that he wants… but that is no longer his?
Preparing for the sale has also caused me to think about our own objects and what will become of them when we’re older. In my mind, I know who I want to give certain quilts to. But what about all the fabric, sewing items such as my good Gingher scissors, sewing machines, etc.? I guess it’s not wise to sit and think about all of this, but it is difficult NOT to! Do you have a plan in place for your sewing collection of stuff? What will you do with it? Do you know who will get it?
Have you seen my phone? Do you know where I last put it? I swear that phone has feet and walks away all on its own! If you should find it at your house, would you please let me know? It has a Kate Spade cover with black and white stripes. I think I look for that phone at least 10 times every day. Wait… you too?!?
It is said that as you get older, it gets harder and harder to remember things. Boy, isn’t that the truth! My Dear husband watches Jeopardy almost every single night. I sit beside him as he answers almost every question, and I am baffled at the memory this man has. How does one do that? They also say that it is important to keep your brain active and try new things. Hmmm… I enjoy reading, and I try as best I can to challenge myself to read more. Hubby also does a large number of crossword puzzles. I’ve never been good at them. I am trying to teach myself how to use WordPress better. WordPress is a software program for blogging. I find it pretty difficult, so every day I’m attempting to learn something new about it. It’s a real challenge!
Quite often I hear from other quilters who want a pattern for a quilt design. I don’t think I have ever purchased a quilt pattern. Normally, if there is a design that I like, I whip out some graph paper and attempt to create a “similar” design, but I really prefer to design something unique on my own… a one-of-a-kind design.
I enjoy reading, and now that I have officially retired, I’m pushing myself to sit down with a book much more frequently than I have in a long time. I’m currently reading Mirror Image by Danielle Steel.
What do you do to challenge yourself? Share it with us! Maybe we can help each other!
If you have joined an online quilting group using Facebook, you may have wondered why your group has rules and guidelines. Creating and running any kind of online group is time consuming. The more people that join a group means that the individuals who monitor and oversee the group have more work to do.
WORK?!?!? Oh yes, there is work! Here is an example:
The first group I ever started was called CELEBRATE HAND QUILTING. The group is still going strong! I started writing this blog post this morning, I checked the group to see how many members are in it. Here is what it shows:
17,240 Members. Oh my goodness!
Everytime a new member asks to join the group, someone (an administrator) has to check and verify that the new person either is already a quilter, has friends who are quilters, expresses a strong interest in becoming a quilter, and more (depending on which group it is. Checking all of this information takes time, and some of our administrators have families and/or work to deal with.
Many groups have fun activities. For example: Celebrate Hand Quilting has a weekly theme which is coordinated by Janet, one of our Admins. Each week, Janet comes up with a fantastic theme and posts the information for that theme online. One of our most recent themes was “SCRAP QUILTS.” So all of the members of the group got busy and looked to see if they have a scrap quilt that they have made previously OR they may contact any quilt guild members they know who has made a scrappy quilt. They may also decide that they want to make a scrap quilt of their own, so the weekly theme prompts them to begin their own NEW scrap quilt!
What if a new “Member Wanna Be” asks to join the group BUT they have never quilted before, don’t know anybody who has hand quilted, don’t own a quilt, etc. Are they kicked out? That all depends on what group it is and what the guidelines of the group are. Most of the time we allow new members into the group but keep tabs on them for awhile. If the person shows great interest and starts asking some fantastic questions that new quilters would want to know, then they would probably soon be admitted into the group.
SADLY, though, sometimes we get new members who want to be in a group, but all they want to do is argue about the rules, complain about a person in the group or about a theme, etc. One or more of the Administrators would more than likely review that person’s request and comments, and then decide that the group does not need a “Grumpy Gloria” or a “Crabby Craig” taking all the fun away. Thus, they would probably be removed from the group. Removing anyone from the group is never fun, and we don’t enjoy doing that. However, for the sake of ALL the members, it is sometimes necessary.
Before you decide to join a group, PLEASE always take a few minutes to review the group guidelines. Read them carefully! If you have questions, contact one of the Admins and feel free to ask! We hope you make lots of new friends and learn a lot of new things!
Caron prepares to hand quilt a new scrappy quilt!
It is amazing how many quilting resources and groups are available online! If you are fairly new to quilting or you are looking for online assistance, the following information might be of help:
* Celebrate Hand Applique: This Facebook group was designed and founded by Caron Mosey. The group is all about doing HAND applique. If you love to do applique by hand or want to learn how, please ask to join this group and then share! Please do not request to join this group simply to promote products or long arm quilting services. The emphasis is NOT to promote quilt shops.
*Celebrate HAND Quilting: This Facebook group was designed and founded by Caron Mosey. The group is all about doing HAND quilting. Yes, that means doing all those little stitches by hand, one stitch at a time, NOT by machine!
*Quilters Classifieds designed and founded by Barbara M. Burnham. Currently at 47K members · 10+ posts a day This is a Buy and Sell Group ·
RULE: 1.) This is a place for quilters to market/sale items that pertain to quilting, such as (Fabric, Thread, Quilts, Sewing Machines, Long Arms, etc.) No craft items please. 🙂 You may have up to 5 posts, and each post can have up to 10 items for sale it in. Please remember to delete your post when the items have sold.
You may “Bump” your post once a day. Only the items you are selling can be in the photos ~ No warehouse type photos, or huge amounts of fabric, just the 10 items that are for sale. PLEASE remember to delete you post once it has sold.
Also, posts that have been inactive for a few weeks may be deleted by admin. Albums are not allowed in this group.
Please use the “Sell Something Tab” when creating your posts. This will make it easier for buyers to find your post.
RULE: 2.) Please include the description of the item, including price and shipping cost or type of shipping used.
PLEASE indicate if the fabric has been exposed to cigarette smoke, animals or perfume.
RULE: 3.) Rude or unkind people will be removed from our group. https://www.facebook.com/BarbaraMBurnham
Beginner LongArm Quilters: PLEASE NOTE WE CHECK EVERY REQUEST TO JOIN. You must answer ALL 3 questions to be considered. We are a LONGARM group, NOT for Domestic machines.
- You will be admitted based on what we can see from your profile: your quilting interests and groups and answered questions.
- If you are the FOUNDER of an online quilting group (that means that YOU started the group) and you would like to have your group included on this list, please contact firstname.lastname@example.org with your information, including the following:
- THE NAME OF YOUR ONLINE QUILTING GROUP
- THE LINK TO YOUR ONLINE QUILTING GROUP
- THE PURPOSE OF YOUR GROUP
- ANY RESTRICTIONS NEW MEMBERS SHOULD KNOW
- ADDITIONAL INFORMATION YOU MIGHT FIND HELPFUL FOR NEW MEMBERS
- eQuilter.com Caron has used this online source for many years. Please give them a try! You won’t be disappointed!
If you have an online resource that you love to use and want to share with others, please send THE FOLLOWING INFORMATION TO email@example.com WITH THE FOLLOWING:
- NAME OF THE ONLINE RESOURCE
- THE LINK TO YOUR ONLINE RESOURCE
- ANYTHING SPECIAL ABOUT THE RESOURCE THAT YOU THINK OTHER QUILTERS MIGHT LIKE TO KNOW
I know we all go through those times where we just can’t figure out what it is that we want to do… Do I pick up a book and read? Do I take a walk? Knit? Sew? watch TV? Normally, I con’t have a problem with this, but I’m finding myself at home and wondering what to do with myself. I have a quilt to work on, however it just stares at me, and I stare right back at it. I have two furry kids who could always get more attention, I have television shows I could watch (but find boring), and I could visit a fabric shop nearby, but the only one close is JoAnn Fabrics. I’m sitting here twiddling my thumbs. Help me (and others) with some suggestions for getting our mo-joe going, please!
If you are a quilter or a seamstress of any kind, you have probably been told that you should ALWAYS sign and date your work for future generations. I have done pretty well keeping up with that tradition on any quilts or other fabric work that I have completed. But sadly, not everyone in my family (my ancestors) did so.
My mother passed away in 2007. She was raised in The Episcopal Childrens’ Home in Pittsburgh., PA. I always knew her to be a talented seamstress. She sewed my clothes when I was young, and even made my prom dress. Mom had a best friend, Alma, and they were buddies all through school. I am the owner of a quilt that she made for Alma’s daughter after she was born. Unfortunately, she did not sign the quilt at the time, so I don’t know what year it was made. Alma lived in Las Vegas, and we lived in Michigan. I only saw her once. After Alma died, her daughter contacted me and asked for my mailing address.
She wanted to ship the quilt to me so that I would have it. She said she had “no need for it,” as she was not going to have any children and wouldn’t need a crib quilt. She didn’t see a reason to keep her baby quilt. My heart was heavy after hearing that.
Somehow or another, at some point in time, my mom learned how to sew. I don’t know who taught her, but I DO know that she taught me well. I have her old Singer Sewing machine in my sewing area, and would never part with it. My dear husband spent a lot of time cleaning it up so that it sews like a charm. Mom taught me how to sew a straight line when I was quite young, how to sew buttonholes, and so much more. Those times together are precious memories.
As I mentioned above, mom passed away in 2007. My father recently moved from Michigan to Phoenix, Arizona. He is now going on 96, and is in an assisted living facility. My brother lives nearby. We are in the process of preparing for an estate sale at his home. If you have ever had to do a sale such as this, you know how grueling it is. Because his home is in Michigan, and we are close by, my husband and I are primarily the ones who are taking care of his property and the preparations for the sale. In going through an old trunk in his home, I came across something that I found to be very interesting.
This embroidered object, above, which I believe to be a pillow cover, was found in a trunk in their bedroom. I assume that mom made it, however I have no proof other than it has her name embroidered on it. I can also see the precision in her machine stitching.
Take a peek at the close-up! I also don’t know when it was made, or for what purpose. I would LOVE to have that information; alas, I am almost certain I will never know.
Also in the trunk, buried at the bottom, were five sweaters which, over the years, were made by me for my dad. They were never, ever worn by my father, or by anyone else for that matter. Each was wrapped in the plastic bag in which I put them many years ago. They are now sitting on the couch in his home, waiting to be purchased by someone at the Estate Sale.
This is a lengthy post, however it has a purpose. Please, please, please, when you make something for someone, or even something to keep for yourself, include your name and the date on the item. If there is a purpose or event that the item is meant for, mention that! Future generations will want to know who you are, who the item was for, and when it was made. If you want to add even more information, please do so! Your work is a treasure… share it with others!