What is “YOUR THING?”

Everybody has their own “thing.”  Some of us have more than one.  My “thing” is quilting by hand.  I can spot a quilt one hundred miles away.  I can look at different quilts and with some degree of certainty, tell you the name of the pattern.  Sitting in my leather chair with my feet up and stitching with a quilt on my lap puts me into that happy place… it relaxes me, provides a sense of calm and gives me a sense of purpose and pride.  Some people have asked me why I choose to hand quilt.  “Don’t you own a sewing machine?  You should go buy one so that you can finish your sewing faster,” they say.  OMG, no way!   My goal is not to quilt fast.  That is the opposite of what I want to do!  I choose to go slow.  I will not put my foot on the accelerator to finish a project quickly.  I want slow.  The world is too fast already.

My husband has several “Things.”  He is a 5th generation Woodworker, preparing to retire soon.  While it is his job, it is so much more than that.  He takes great pride in building every piece of furniture JUST SO… doing it in the traditional way of his ancestors, who started the family business back in England eons ago.

Another “Thing” my hubby has is motorcycles.  We have two living in our garage (hey, this is Michigan and it’s freezing out!).  Oh, let’s not forget his “Thing” for music.  You could grab a song and play it for him and he would most likely know a) who wrote it b) who is singing it, and c) who played which instrument in the group playing that song.  Yup, music is his “Thing.”

If you scroll back to the top of this post, there’s a question there for you.  What is “Your Thing?”

Here’s another “Thing” to ponder.  If you were buying a different house to live in, what would you need to have to support “Your Thing?”

I need:  

  • lots of fabric storage space
  • good lighting
  • lots of electrical outlets for irons, a radio or stereo, my laptop computer, sewing machines (yes, I do own a few), etc.
  • A nice floor that I can sweep or vacuum
  • A design wall that I can use to pin up portions of the quilt while I am working on it.
  • A heat source.  My current basement is freezing.
  • A comfortable lounging chair so I can sit and hand quilt if I choose
  • A wall separating my sewing area from the storage area of the basement.  (My husband would say “just get the crap out of there and the problem is solved.”  Ignore him.

For hubby Dean’s “Thing” for music, he would need:

  • A room that is not too warm.

Multiple shelving units:

  • At least one unit for all the LPs he owns from back in the day (we won’t say which day we’re talking about)
  • One shelving unit for cassette tapes
  • At least one unit for CD’s … no, better make that two units, floor to ceiling height
  • Shelf space for a turn-table
  • Space for a cassette player/recorder
  • A CD player
  • Dividers for all of the above (you know… so you can arrange them by either musician’s name, name of the band, release date of the album, style of music, etc.)
  • A comfy chair in which to sit and listen to music
  • A table to sit at to do crossword puzzles while listening to music
  • A collection of “perfect pens” to use on crossword puzzles
  • Space for his Mac, desk and chair

For hubby Dean’s “Thing” for motorcycles, he would need:

  • A heated, lighted barn, 40 ft x 60 ft…
  • Oh, never mind the barn.  We can’t afford this thing and all the bikes that would eventually come to live with him in this barn.  Yes, you read that right.

So if you are thinking about buying a new home, think carefully about “Your Thing.”  Make a list of what you would require so that your needs are met.  Share that list with your Realtor, spouse,  and family.  Consider the other people in your home, and what the important “Things” in their lives are.  Those matter, too.




Realtor/Quilter Caron is Back!!!

Yes, I have been away from the blog world for quite some time now.  “Why,” you ask? Several reasons.  My hubby and I have been dealing with elderly parents, those both in and out of assisted living facilities… and managing their homes, properties and belongings, etc.  So we have been taking care of our OWN yard, in addition to the yards of our parents and that of my husband’s business.

I have been trying to squeeze in some hand quilting time when I can, but then started getting pain in my right hand which prevented me from stitching.  I’ve seen a specialist, and for two months did not quilt at all (UGH!).  It turns out I have arthritis in my hand, so I have some things I have to do to learn the best way for me to proceed as a quilter.

I am also working as a Realtor in the Mid-Michigan area, specifically working as a Buyer’s Agent for the Lucy Ham Group, Inc. in Flushing, Michigan.  I’m loving being back in real estate (I did this in another life many moons ago) and I’m adjusting to the crazy schedule of being a Realtor.

To top this all off, my husband and I are facing that time in our lives when things change.  We’re not getting any younger.  Hubby is ready to build a new studio on our property where he can be creative, and where he can enjoy doing all the things he has wanted to do but never had the time for.  We are both looking at finishing our basement so that I have a proper sewing area that I have been wanting for a long time.  Since we built this house in 1996 (ish), my sewing area has been in an unfinished basement with cement block walls, a few random tables and several extension cords.  I need to do better than that, and I’m ready for it!

How does this impact you?  I’m going to be writing more on this blog, about a variety of different things: quilting, finishing the basement, creating a sewing area, building hubby a studio out back, about living life as a Realtor, and… OH YES!  Let’s not forget our newest family member, NOODLE, our new dog!  More about Noodle in another post.

So stay tuned, prepare for some changes in 2017, and here we go!!!